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Get off my LAWN! "Grumpy Old Farts"

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E-gads, I thot I got rid of that. It was a dumb thing to do. I'm 52. I started a habit of making me 100 years old after a year on a forum a long time ago. I did that because one of the hobby forums I was on blew up and we all lost our join date. Not real important, but it helps me remember how long an obsession has gone on. I'm sorry to mislead you. I thought I had it hidden. I'll have to get with an admin and set it right. I am open and honest and I find this embarrassing!

Ok, thanks for coming clean, @BadExample. I was amazed at your prolific posts and clarity of expression for that age.

Is April 1st your real birthday? If so, the birthday wishes still hold. If not, I get the joke, you fooled me.

Oh, . . . uh, [grumpiness] Dag nab these con sarned young whippersnappers these days! Cain't trust 'em as far as you can throw 'em!! I tell you, in my day . . . uh, . . . why, we would . . . um, . . . You know, I remember one time, a long time ago, that I . . . well, we . . . [/grumpiness] . . . we, uh,, had a really nice Easter that year. Yep, we did. And I wish everyone a real nice Easter this year.
 
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"These darn kids don't listen to anything you to tell them to help make them better now a days"....oh crap I quess I should be in then too huh?
 
"I'm going into my 4th month with a frozen shoulder. If any of ya'all have got any advice, tips, suggestions etc. I'd be forever grateful. My friend told me his sis had this for over a year and that scares me." EEEK !!....say I.

I posted Looong ago, but now I'm breaking down full force LOL ! sold my big rig ( 75lbs total) for a small combo (22lbs).... and now I have to get shoulder surgery for a torn rotator cuff and torn bicep tendon..... my right shoulder.... I'm right handed..... I'm pulling all my stuff together before I get the knife.... new (Link Removed) and getting stocked up from the dispensary.

I guess now, at 64, I qualify for a number ??

As I understand, there's not a specific age, more of a grump:age ratio. So if you're grumpy enough...:laugh::D:laugh:

You are the one with the frozen shoulder? I did ask my wife about that, but she has not run across a patient with that problem. All I found was it takes a long time to go away :(
 
Ok, thanks for coming clean, @BadExample. I was amazed at your prolific posts and clarity of expression for that age.

Is April 1st your real birthday? If so, the birthday wishes still hold. If not, I get the joke, you fooled me.

Oh, . . . uh, [grumpiness] Dag nab these con sarned young whippersnappers these days! Cain't trust 'em as far as you can throw 'em!! I tell you, in my day . . . uh, . . . why, we would . . . um, . . . You know, I remember one time, a long time ago, that I . . . well, we . . . [/grumpiness] . . . we, uh,, had a really nice Easter that year. Yep, we did. And I wish everyone a real nice Easter this year.

Close my friend, but I don't put my exact birth date anywhere for security purposes. Even being careful I had around $1500 sucked out of a local savings account for reasons the bank could not explain, but refunded. More recently almost $1000 in charges before my credit union saw it and put a hold on the card. That came back too.
 
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Is April 1st your real birthday?

Not my birthday either, but that's our wedding anniversary. It's easy to remember and we figured that if you can't have a sense of humor about marriage, you're doomed from the start. It's worked for almost 38 years now, so there must be some truth to it.

Now for today's GOF rant:
I just finished my first mountain bike ride of the season (woohoo! I can still do it!) and at one point I came around a corner and saw two couples in the 18 year old range up ahead. I watched to make sure they knew I was there and weren't going to walk out into the trail. The entire time I had them in sight three of the four were standing there staring into their phones. I could have ridden past dressed as the Easter Bunny and they wouldn't have noticed. Why they bothered to walk into the woods to stand there oblivious to the beautiful day and nice surroundings is beyond me. I think the zombie apocalypse has already happened.

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On frozen shoulder: I had a bout with it last summer, and had a much faster than average hearing period, so I think I can add something to the conversation. I was only unable to play bass for about 3 weeks, and had over 80% recovery of range of motion within 3 months. Most people I know report recovery times of a year or more, and continuing arm, neck and shoulder pain.

Some observations, in no particular order of importance:
- The causes of frozen shoulder are often postural. At my first appointment, the physio grabbed my iPad, had me turn sideways, and took a picture of me looking like a vulture, shoulders drawn forward to protect from the pain, head down and forward. He did that to illustrate the problem, and motivate me to fix the underlying cause.
- Bad habits take time and consistency to break, but that has to happen. Looking down at computer screens that are too low, holding portable devices out too far in front of you for too long at a time, long-distance driving or riding in/on machines that don't fit you properly, desks that are too far away or too high, slouching, etc., all train you to hold your body in unnatural positions. This puts unnecessary stress on your shoulders and neck, inevitably leading to FS and other problems...
- Get a good physiotherapist, listen to everything they say, and ACT on their recommendations. I thought long and hard about my habits and posture, and committed to making changes. I stopped slouching sideways and leaning on my arms, driving the upper arm up into its socket. I stopped sleeping with my hand up under my head. I revamped my work area. I started walking and getting more mild exercise.
- Train yourself to be more conscious in the moment. Notice when your upper arm isn't hanging straight down when you are in the idle position, and move closer to your work surface as needed. Move the garbage can away from your desk, so that you have to get up and move around more often. Set a movement timer on your phone. Get up and go to bed for naps, instead of slouching down in a chair or on the couch, etc, etc., etc.
- Don't slack off at the first sign of improvement. Partial return of your range of motion is a good sign of progress, not the desired end state. I followed the treatment program, using simple, repetitive exercises to restore proper and complete shoulder function. I can now do push-ups again, something I hadn't even attempted in about 40 years...
- Don't act like a GOF, and try to power through your recovery like a jackass. Slow and steady wins this race, stopping when it hurts but returning to your stretching excercises, etc., as many times as it takes.
- Although I couldn't really afford it at the time, I made it a priority to buy a ball chair, gadgets to raise my computer screens, a sit/stand desk, and an excercise bike with upper body component (Schwinn Aerodyne). Each one of these elements contributed something to my recovery. Now that the weather is warming up and I'm healthy enough to start riding by bike again, I plan to adjust the riding position in order to reduce the stress on my neck and shoulders.
- If you have a sedentary or solitary lifestyle, CHANGE IT. FS is often aggravated by shoulder injury, but many of the root causes are related to sitting too often and for too long in fixed, unhealthy postures.
- Recovery from FS is a mental game. I shrugged off my symptoms for months, only getting serious after it robbed me of the ability to play first bass, and then even guitar. My initial response was to immediately switch over to fear, panic and depression. Strangely, that didn't help... :)

If you are of the praying persuasion, don't keep it to yourself. Ask anyone who will listen, to pray for you and along with you. While you're at it, volunteer somewhere and spread a little sunshine into other people's lives.

Even if you don't have faith, doing so will force you off the couch and get you out talking to people. Movement and companionship are literally what the doctor ordered!
 
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That's encouraging! I can set my weight goal at 200# for the cab then. Here's all I have been able to accomplish so far:

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Dog spit enhances the grain. Tator Salad is happy to help; look at that tail going!

Happy Easter everyone!
happy easter to you, sir.. but I hope that most of the wet is from Tator's paws. I think he's just juiced on the smell of the wood and maybe drooling a bit; then again a dog will pretty much lick anything that smells good.
fnord!
 
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She changed the key to my back door, Now my key don’t fit no more,
Move it on over, rock it on over, move over li’l’ dog a big bad dog’s moving in!!

I didn't know you were a GT fan. This morning they sent an e-mail, and as it turns out, she (the building deputy) had the lock changed. I should scream, but she does a lot and does her best to keep everything working.

Rough day at work... Now, I'm ready for one scotch, one whiskey and one beeeeeeyar.
 
happy easter to you, sir.. but I hope that most of the wet is from Tator's paws. I think he's just juiced on the smell of the wood and maybe drooling a bit; then again a dog will pretty much lick anything that smells good.
fnord!

All from licking. She licks everything, including me. Self washing though, fill the tub, add baby shampoo, she jumps in and agitates until exhausted. I didn't know the russels have sphincters in their ears. Had to give her ear drops, and she closed her ears.

Like your avator, saw it for months, then finally my dislexia let me see the "N" :D
 
All the best to Bassman Paul from the North of Finland, as well.

Where I am on a cross-country skiing holiday.

But can't ski due to having tried to break up a dog fight.

That resulted in MY OWN DOG nicking me in my left hand.

Which means no bass either, for a while.

It hurts and I am grumpy... but still, it's such a first-world problem and very minor compared to heart surgery.
 
All the best to Bassman Paul from the North of Finland, as well.

Where I am on a cross-country skiing holiday.

But can't ski due to having tried to break up a dog fight.

That resulted in MY OWN DOG nicking me in my left hand.

Which means no bass either, for a while.

It hurts and I am grumpy... but still, it's such a first-world problem and very minor compared to heart surgery.
Luckily, it wasn't one of those mutated raccoons you showed us pics of. You could have lost the whole hand!!
 
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Hey Paul...I am sorry to hear of your heart troubles...How frightening
I wish you all the best and a full recovery

TTC sucks and subway is inconvenient , overcrowded ...very limited....Streetcars are worse

I drive a car.....everywhere....or everywhere around the city on ttc can be a 4 hour journey.....Grrrrr

and those stupid bike lanes just cause bottleneck for all drivers
and I was a cyclist here for 15 years
 
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and those stupid bike lanes just cause bottleneck for all drivers
and I was a cyclist here for 15 years

Don’t get me started on bike riders. Quite honestly they seem to have a death wish. The other night I’m about to go through an intersection with a green light. I caght a glimpse of a small flashing light to my left. To my disbelief a cyclist contentedly pedalled over the crosswalk against a red light. I hit the horn but he just kept pedalling. In my view if a cyclist gets hit while he/she is ignoring the traffic control structure on our roads then they only have themselves to blame.

Dang!! I’m yet more grumpy than ever!!! :(
 
Hey, I'm a bike rider, but I stay the hell off the streets and only mountain bike. Not all bike riders are douche bags and I agree that road riders who ignore traffic laws are a big problem. It astounds me when they bitch about drivers who get mad at them. It's a typical case of the few making the many look bad. Besides, around here most roads don't have shoulders, most have a 55mph speed "limit" and there are a lot of double gravel haulers and angry rednecks in big pickups. Definitely a hostile environment to ride a bike in.
I stay in the woods on my bike and I don't have to worry about some punk tree running over me while it's texting.
 
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