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Is it wrong to think you're unattractive?

Thats nice of you to say.

I have been pondering calf implants, though.




Not really.

*lol* I remember this espidoe of True Life on MTV that was about plastic surgery. One of the people on it was a really physically fit guy who had a big complex about his calves, so he got calf implants.

The truth of the matter is nobody probably noticed that he didn't have huge bodybuilder calves before the surgery. :rollno:
 
I'm 30 5'5 130# Irish with blue eyes. I just had an orgy the other night. ;) to quote Tom Waits "My friends think I'm ugly but I got a masculine face" just saying attitude is everything. Confidence not cockiness. Women want to **** men not boys. Screw the 20's act like you're 40. Been there done that, don't want or need her. The song by morphine comes to mind. " don't worry I'm not looking at you, whisper me your number, I'll call you up at home." attention whores will demand attention when you don't give them any. Next thing you know you' re getting head on the way to a room. Duh
 
I'm 30 5'5 130# Irish with blue eyes. I just had an orgy the other night. ;) to quote Tom Waits "My friends think I'm ugly but I got a masculine face" just saying attitude is everything. Confidence not cockiness. Women want to **** men not boys. Screw the 20's act like you're 40. Been there done that, don't want or need her. The song by morphine comes to mind. " don't worry I'm not looking at you, whisper me your number, I'll call you up at home." attention whores will demand attention when you don't give them any. Next thing you know you' re getting head on the way to a room. Duh

I love that you bumped this thread just to post this. :D
 
I'm 30 5'5 130# Irish with blue eyes. I just had an orgy the other night. ;) to quote Tom Waits "My friends think I'm ugly but I got a masculine face" just saying attitude is everything. Confidence not cockiness. Women want to **** men not boys. Screw the 20's act like you're 40. Been there done that, don't want or need her. The song by morphine comes to mind. " don't worry I'm not looking at you, whisper me your number, I'll call you up at home." attention whores will demand attention when you don't give them any. Next thing you know you' re getting head on the way to a room. Duh

Do you disagree men have ranks?

I dated recently, things went well. But I still dated someone I deserved
 
Lol BUMP! Yes men have as many ranks as women. I've been in good relationships and bad ones. I have an awesome son out of the last deal but when you go searching for good women they use you and play the Role then you're screwed so just have fun dating and you'll know a good one when you meet them.
 
Lol BUMP! Yes men have as many ranks as women. I've been in good relationships and bad ones. I have an awesome son out of the last deal but when you go searching for good women they use you and play the Role then you're screwed so just have fun dating and you'll know a good one when you meet them.

The answer so far seems to be dating a girl older than myself with less experience than me. This one is fun!
 
I dunno. The idea of there being ranks seems somewhat silly to me on the simple basis that everyone is different, and everyone views everyone differently. I find girls attractive that some of my buddies might be indifferent to, and some of my buddies might find girls attractive who I wouldn't go out of my way to talk to. In other words, we rank everyone differently from one another based on personal preferences.

Since there doesn't seem to be a real uniformed opinion of people in all situations, it just seems like a waste of time to put too much thought into that kind of thing. Just go out there and live life. Some women will find you attractive and some won't. It's nothing personal, just like it's nothing personal if you don't find certain women attractive who, to another dude's eyes, are total knockouts.
 
I dunno. The idea of there being ranks seems somewhat silly to me on the simple basis that everyone is different, and everyone views everyone differently. I find girls attractive that some of my buddies might be indifferent to, and some of my buddies might find girls attractive who I wouldn't go out of my way to talk to. In other words, we rank everyone differently from one another based on personal preferences.

Since there doesn't seem to be a real uniformed opinion of people in all situations, it just seems like a waste of time to put too much thought into that kind of thing. Just go out there and live life. Some women will find you attractive and some won't. It's nothing personal, just like it's nothing personal if you don't find certain women attractive who, to another dude's eyes, are total knockouts.

On the other hand ppl say such characteristic responses such as "you're doing it wrong".

Honestly I changed nothing, she was actually just an online dating contact I shot a mail on a whim. Dated her just the same as anyone else.

Her appearance went from a 7 to a ten after I realized she could cut the **** and enjoyed me being around.

I think it might be age; at 32, conceited pretentious behavior stops and ppl just calm down.

I think it's rank/ability to control impulse