Second date

[Gaolee]

Forget the games, just go for it bruh. She is obviously into you, no need to be coy.

Truth, from the sounds of things.

 

[NWB]

Forget the games, just go for it bruh. She is obviously into you, no need to be coy.

Exactly.

You're about one date away from having a regular girlfriend.

 

[StevieMac]

Later that night she text'ed me how her bed was not the same since I was not there.

It doesn't get much more obvious than this.

 

[DerHoggz]

It doesn't get much more obvious than this.

Pretty sure even I would have seen that.

 

[StevieMac]

Pretty sure even I would have seen that.

LOL, exactly what I thought.

 

[LiquidMidnight]

Again, good idea but already mentioned I do not live around there.

Then you need to get a VW bus and follow the Lixx around like the Dead. Do it! You won't regret it.

 

[Furious_Man77]

There is no such thing as a Facebook "friend".
Facebook is of Satan.

+1 to FB being filler to real social activities.

Keep your stuff private and intimate if you really like this girl.

 

[DerHoggz]

Since our schedules are both busy during the week I look at tonight as a "just wanted to see you and get out and do something together since we both had busy and stressful weeks" type date.

Don't let that mindset limit you if anything comes up.

 

[StevieMac]

Use no limit as limit.

 

[DerHoggz]

For sure and I wont let it limit. Just have to remember it's only Thursday and I still have to get up early tomorrow for work ha ha.

I was told about "About last Night" by a co-worker when I mentioned movies. She said it's rated R and is funny but also is adult and does have s*x scenes in it. I know she is into me and we have been going good so far but I cannot think a bit I really hope she does not totally get the wrong impression based off the movie choice. Of course if she does happen to know anything about it she would know already.

Work schmerk, there are more important things in life. Good luck all around though.

 

[Vince Klortho]

I once took a girl to see "Bull Durham." She was not impressed with what she called the "gratuitous sex" in it. I did not take her out again.

The kind of movie you describe will be a good benchmark test of her personality and attitudes.

 

[NWB]

Congratulations on your new love.

BTW, the movie choice is just fine unless; a) she's 12 years old or younger, or b) she's extremely religious.

 

[bassinplace]

I suppose so, About Last Night appears to be more of a romantic comedy and Kevin Hart is in it so It's funny but because of the romance part I am sure some stuff will be shown. However we are both in our mid-late 20's so I figure it's less "oh my god!" We have plans for the movie that starts late tonight at the theater, however I am also thinking of a plan B that I could perhaps very smoothly say why don't we hang at your house instead and perhaps bring a movie over...but again that may make her think more then simply going to the movie and hopefully laughing at the comedic part. Women love romance and laughing so I still think I may be alright with the movie.

It's a chick flick. She'll probably be into it. You, on the other hand might just have to bear your way through it. As chick flicks go, it's not terrible.

 

[Gaolee]

I suppose so, About Last Night appears to be more of a romantic comedy and Kevin Hart is in it so It's funny but because of the romance part I am sure some stuff will be shown. However we are both in our mid-late 20's so I figure it's less "oh my god!" We have plans for the movie that starts late tonight at the theater, however I am also thinking of a plan B that I could perhaps very smoothly say why don't we hang at your house instead and perhaps bring a movie over...but again that may make her think more then simply going to the movie and hopefully laughing at the comedic part. Women love romance and laughing so I still think I may be alright with the movie.

You are overthinking this! You are a guy. You are supposed to grunt and scratch, not try to figure out what's in her head. You will fail every time. That's easy for me to say since I have been married for a very long time. I still don't have a clue how she's going to react to this or that!

Getting her laughing is always a good play.

 

[BurningSkies]

Get a few movies so she has options.

 

[drummer5359]

Relax, have fun, and she will too.

 

[tastybasslines]

She made you banana bread and said that she is going to try not to dream about you.

Your are having sex tomorrow.

If she wanted to, would you do it? It can ruin a good thing in the beginning IMO.

 

[will33]

Ice skating, sledding, snowmobiling (if you or a friend has one), skiing....all outdoor winter activities if it's not bitter cold and the first two don't cost much at all. Find something to do with her tomorrow afternoon (assuming the comedy club date is at night).

Don't push the sex thing but be prepared for it tomorrow, man. The girl is into you and has dropped some pretty obvious hints.

 

[will33]

So far she has instigated making out with you, let you stay at her place overnight, said her bed wasn't the same without you in it, BAKED YOU BREAD, and said she might dream of you....

I'm about as thickheaded as they come when it comes to recognizing women's hints and even I can see these.

 

[GregC]

I usually avoid these dating advice threads like the plague, but I took a peek and it sounds like things couldn't possibly be going any better. Just keep doing what you're doing and don't overthink it.