Land deal got to be too much to take on. Had a long think and decided beyond financial struggle and the less than decent terms, I read all you guys talking about moving and realizes suddenly I'm not sure I want to remain in Denton beyond a year or two.
Well, it's good you considered it well and came to a clear-headed decision. While it sounded like a great deal (from what you posted about it here) that has always been my #1 problem with owning property. In my life, I have never lived in one place more than three years in a row. I've sometimes been in the same town or state that long, but never in one dwelling.
I know lots of people who grew up with and still live around the same people and neighborhoods they were around when they were in kindergarten. While I like the idea of that kind of stabilty and continuity, it is foreign to me.
At my age now I really WANT to settle down. Take trips and vacations instead of moving so often, but have a home base to come back to.
But the idea still gives me pause. At 46 to dig in somewhere and change my mindset to
"Well, this is IT...this is HOME...forever" is, in a way, unsettling itself.
Obviously you can try to sell a house and move anytime, but it sounds like an ordeal. Will it sell for more than you bought it for/owe on it? How long will it be on the market? How will the inspection and appraisal go down? Etc., etc.
Also, I am so used to being able to call a landlord to fix anything that goes wrong. I've never had to be financially responsible for roof repairs, an appliance crapping out, electrical or plumbing problems. I'm handy enough to take care of some of those issues myself before I bother the landlord, but it's nice to be able to say
"Eh, screw this...call the man."
I am hoping that all the jobs I've been putting in for in Colorado, Oregon, Washington, Arizona and a few other states may pan out so that we can skeedaddle from Jokelahoma, make more $$$ and find a place we like enough to make it our permanent HQ.
Likewise, I hope you find The Place for you.