Look I don’t know if I fit here but I feel like I can say I’m a bass player now.
Here’s who I am:
I’ve been doing this music stuff for 48 years now. Had my first six string guitar and took my first guitar lesson in 1973. Bought my 1st bass in 1976. Someone gave me a set of drums around the same time. My older brother was a drummer so I used to sneak in to his room at risk of death when he wasn’t home, before I got the free drums, and play along with his Chicago albums! (The absolutely powerful, socially conscious, rocking, Terry Kath version of Chicago)
My best friend was a drummer (he gave me his old drums) so I bought a guitar to jam with him. Just the bass and me and him didn’t work. So I started playing guitar. Then he got a gig with a real band. I became their sound man/roadie fill in drummer/guitarist/singer/bass player when someone didn’t make it.
Then 1980 came along there were no jobs in Buffalo so me and a friend traveled out west I packed my drums in the back seat of a 68’ Olds convertible. Stayed in Denver a while. (Ate nothing but 5lb bags of potatoes!) No jobs there so We figured we would try Vegas. I got tired of sleeping with my drums in the car so we pulled over on the side of the road on RT 15 and I set them up in the dessert and we drove away lol. We were on the road for about a year and put about 10k on that car.
When we got back to Buffalo my mother had hung on to the bass for me. Still no work in Buffalo so off to Virginia where a friend of mine had moved when I was on the road (he was the bass player in my best friends band) I took that bass with me to Virginia and lived there a couple of years and played just that for a couple of years.
Came back to Buffalo. Got married. Settled down. Had some money. I started building home studios. Playing all the instruments and recording original stuff. That was mid 80s. In 1990 we bought a house and I started a few bands and we did several gigs. I was playing drums in those bands but had my home studio and played all the instruments and would have friends sit in with me and lay down tracks for me recording original stuff while playing covers in bars.
Skip ahead to today. I’ve done the band thing/studio thing for the last 30 years in various combinations with various people.
About 3 years ago I got hurt. Hanging from a gutter I ruptured my right distal bicep tore up my shoulder and my wrist. I was no longer able to play the drums. My right arm is shot. I had played guitars and basses all my life so it was time to switch gears. I decided to throw myself in to bass. Been doing that non-stop for 3 years now. A couple of hours just about every day for over a thousand days now. I consider myself a bassist now. Yes I was a drummer for many years in bands. I purchased 60 guitars and basses in my life and untold boards and lights and PAs and drums and guitar amps and bass amps and recording consoles and mics and on and on and on.
I’m kicking myself because I should have just thrown myself in to the bass from the beginning. I know that now with the wisdom of age. It’s where I belonged my whole life. But I can tell you that finding a drummer that can keep good time like I can is not easy. So I had value there. And I can sing while playing drums and that has real value. (And I owned the PA and had the rehearsal studio and that used to have real value lol)
What I’ve learned through the years is that bass players are the hardest to find and a good bass player is REALLY hard to find. And if your a lead singer/bass player forget it your are the messiah! Bass players are like gold. We are gold.
So I dunno. Do I belong here? Yes I can play guitar and drums and I won’t apologize for that. But I feel like a bass player now and it’s how I will finish out the rest of my life. I will die a bass player. A proud bass player. I feel like my whole life’s musical experience has led me to where I should have been all along.
I’ve learned many songs on bass in the pst 3 years but I currently am on a quest to learn 125 Beatles tunes and remember them all. 90 down 35 to go. I found a community here. People I like who play bass. I’m learning from you folks. No matter how old you get you still have stuff to learn. I believe that. Some here even play guitars. I especially enjoy the the Rumble Club run by the venerable @G-Dog and this combo club run by our fearless leader
@iagtrplyr . I like you people. But if I don’t qualify as a “bass player” and the occasional discussion of our guitars (I have not been talking about guitars but I think it’s ok btw) is not allowed I can go elsewhere.
It’s all good.