The BAD: I have been playing for more than 30 years and cannot read music. I do not understand theory at all and am terrible at improvising. I usually need time to work things out. I have tried to learn to read music and just don't get it. I graduated from UMASS, Suma Cum Laude and am a member of the international honor society. I am also in the process of pursuing an Executive MBA and a Master's in Finance at Boston University so my inability to read music has nothing to do with a lack of intelligence. Maybe it's the fact that I have always been able to get the gig because of my ability to play by ear and learn quickly so I never really applied myself when it comes to learning to read.
The good: I can learn anything by ear in a very short period of time. Several years ago, I was auditioning for an original blues band. The leader gave me cds containing about 30 songs. He asked me to learn 3 or 4 songs and show up for the audition 2 days later. When I arrived at the audition, he asked me what songs I had learned. I said all of them. He didn't believe me and started randomly picking out songs to test me. He was shocked that I could play all of them. I got the gig. The keyboard player in that same band has degrees from 3 different music colleges including Berklee. He told me that I was one of the best bassists he had ever played with. He and I do a lot of recording together and we started a music production company. We are in the process of starting a record label. He once said to me "If you could read music, you would be deadly and could play with anybody". He always says that he cannot understand how I can play as well as I do and learn as quickly as I do without understanding theory. He has tried to teach me and I just don't get it. I wish I could.
I played with a drummer who was trained at Berklee and understood theory. Whenever we were working on songs, he would write drum charts to use to follow along. He would hang a clipboard on the side of my amp and refer to it during the set. The problem was that he had no feel at all. If we deviated from the way he learned the song he would get lost. If the lead guitarist shortened or extended a solo, the drummer had no idea what to do because we were not following his charts. Given the choice, I will take a feel player over a theory player but ideally, I would like to have someone who can do both.
The good: I can learn anything by ear in a very short period of time. Several years ago, I was auditioning for an original blues band. The leader gave me cds containing about 30 songs. He asked me to learn 3 or 4 songs and show up for the audition 2 days later. When I arrived at the audition, he asked me what songs I had learned. I said all of them. He didn't believe me and started randomly picking out songs to test me. He was shocked that I could play all of them. I got the gig. The keyboard player in that same band has degrees from 3 different music colleges including Berklee. He told me that I was one of the best bassists he had ever played with. He and I do a lot of recording together and we started a music production company. We are in the process of starting a record label. He once said to me "If you could read music, you would be deadly and could play with anybody". He always says that he cannot understand how I can play as well as I do and learn as quickly as I do without understanding theory. He has tried to teach me and I just don't get it. I wish I could.
I played with a drummer who was trained at Berklee and understood theory. Whenever we were working on songs, he would write drum charts to use to follow along. He would hang a clipboard on the side of my amp and refer to it during the set. The problem was that he had no feel at all. If we deviated from the way he learned the song he would get lost. If the lead guitarist shortened or extended a solo, the drummer had no idea what to do because we were not following his charts. Given the choice, I will take a feel player over a theory player but ideally, I would like to have someone who can do both.


