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What album has kept you alive?

So I'm horribly depressed - my father died, we were supposed to scatter ashes on the ocean today but weather is bad, it's my birthday and he's not here, etc.

So I need music today.

I asked my wife, 'Slayer or ambient music'? (I haven't finished my coffee yet)

I picked Aerosmith Rocks (the first album I stole from my sister when I was a kid)

It worked, it rocks, full volume with Beats headphones, it rocks today.

My question is, what music has kept you going when the going is hard? All suggestions welcome

After the neighbors wake up I will be grabbing a PBass and need to play loud today.
So sorry to hear about your loss. We lost my mother in law a few weeks ago. It's been tough. To answer your question, generally The Clash - any of the first three albums (through London Calling) and the EP Black Market Clash pumps me up.
 
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Sorry for your loss.
My mother passed away on 2013. She was only 70 years old. She had me when she was 18. There was always music playing in our house. In the early 70s, she saw Elvis, Frank Sinatra and Alice Cooper in the same month. She saw the Rolling Stones on the Steel Wheels tour. When she died, I inherited her record collection which included classical, blues, jazz and rock. I remember her listening to a lot of Motown, especially The Supremes, The Four Tops and Smokey Robinson. She also listened to Petula Clark quite a bit. My mother was by far the biggest supporter of my music and was responsible for me joining a touring blues band which is where I met my business partner. He and I do some of the music for American Pickers on The History Channel, The Aquarium and The Zoo on Animal Planet and several other shows. When my mother passed away, I found myself listening to a lot of Supremes and Petula Clark.
 
Lyrics that seems to make everyone reflect on the lives of those who they love and their own life.

Pink Floyd - Eclipse
All that you touch
And all that you see
All that you taste
All you feel
And all that you love
And all that you hate
All you distrust
All you save
And all that you give
And all that you deal
And all that you buy
Beg, borrow or steal
And all you create
And all you destroy
And all that you do
And all that you say
And all that you eat
And everyone you meet
And all that you slight
And everyone you fight
And all that is now
And all that is gone
And all that's to come
And everything under the sun is in tune
But the sun is eclipsed by the moon
 
Sorry for your loss. Losing a father is a difficult page in the life of a man. I've been through it.
Time is the healer in this case.

Happy birthday as well, despite the sad circumstance.

Music wise, stay away from dark stuff and keep it upbeat. That being said when my wife and I experienced a loss, Gimme Shelter from the Stones provided me some consolation which strange since it's a rather dark song.

So I guess, the answer to your question might be anything that strikes your fancy and makes you feel better.
Take care of yourself.
 
"Badmotorfinger" - Soundgarden

It's my favorite album ever and has it all IMO - loads of great bass playing. I have it on vinyl and blast it loud regardless of my mood. Some of it may not be the most emotional but it rocks hard which may be your preference right now...

My condolences, hope you feel better soon! :) Maybe Chris Cornell and the boys can soften the blow if only for an hour or so...
 
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All music has healing powers. Sometimes that comes in the form of letting you feel some pretty raw emotions. It may not seem like it at the time, but it's a good thing.

When I was going through a very, very rough time some years ago, I was listening to David Gilmour "On an Island". I can't recommend this whole album enough. Bought it for a friend a few years later who was going thru a similar rough time; she said it really helped her.



Best of luck to you. This isn't fun, but believe me when I tell you that it will get better.
 
I'm so sorry for your loss.

As many others have said, "Close to the Edge" has gotten me through many tough times. Just recently, I mentioned to my wife that if I had a choice of what music to listen to as I passed, I would choose "And You and I". I've been listening to that song over and over lately, and it always touches me.

I wish you the best as you walk through the dark valley.
 
Everybody hates this album, but... Metallica's St Anger.

It came out at a particularly dark period in my life. My wife and I were about to split up (a couple signatures away from it), I was being a total screw up, almost getting fired from work, etc...

I'll never argue that the production or anything on it is great, but the lyrics sounded like they were written specifically for me. James was going through rehab, and he gets really personal and introspective. The bridge to "Unnamed Feeling" can still make me cry if I hear it at the right/wrong time. The "Get the f*** out of here, I just wanna get the f*** away from me" part.

I was sooooo disappointed when that album came out. I pre-ordered it the day it came available. BUT that song works great for today! My wife gave me a knowing nod, went upstairs, and gave me lots of space today. That bridge is rather poignant.
Thanks for sharing.
 
I was sooooo disappointed when that album came out. I pre-ordered it the day it came available. BUT that song works great for today! My wife gave me a knowing nod, went upstairs, and gave me lots of space today. That bridge is rather poignant.
Thanks for sharing.

I was walking through a department store in the middle of the week, and they'd accidentally put it on display early. Practically ran through the checkout lane, and flew to my car. Popped in the cd, and after 20 seconds, wondered if I should take it back in and exchange it for a non-defective copy.

Glad that one helped, and sorry to hear about your dad.
 
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The first song I thought of was "Ships" by Ian Hunter. It's a beautiful song about a man's relationship with his father, and it has an ocean theme. So close to home and your current situation, but sometimes that's the best thing. Let the tears flow, it's all good.

What are you trying to do? Kill me?
Just kidding.
Beautiful.
Thank you.
 
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Rollins Band

That dude is intense! I was introduced to him when I was at my first punk show and he just started with Black Flag. I was standing next to the stage and he looked at me (or through me) and I will never forget that intensity.

I got into his spoken word stuff in the 90's and I picked up that live Australia album and it blew me away. Early rollins band is good stuff. Especially for lifting weights. That stuff hit me at the perfect time in my life.
 
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