I do think his critique of "bedroom tone" is a decent point though. The only people who use bedroom tone are those that are brand new to music or have never been out of the bedroom let alone played in a group. Heck a smiley face EQ-shape (big smile-shaped EQ) sounds good in a bedroom at low levels, but nowhere else and especially not at gig levels. I think the rest of your posts make sense but that "bedroom tone" does come across as demeaning and referring to someone who hasn't a clue what sounds good in a group. And I'm sure you've run across folks like that too.When you post a topic here, you invite a conversation.... a BROAD conversation. I literally answered your question with "It's not that simple". Posting a topic doesn't imply "Answer my question specifically in the way I want it answered or go away."
What "should be easier" is bass players (of which I'm one) understanding that their favorite bedroom tones might not work out in a band/mix setting.
Let's put it back to you. How would YOU answer your own question? Would you go out into the room while the sound guy is doing a line check on you and say "OK, boost the lows a little. Maybe cut out the highs for less fret noise. RIGHT THERE! That's it. Don't touch a THING for the rest of the night!" (Yes, I'm taking it to the point of being ridiculous to make a point. I don't think you actually feel that way.) What, specifically, would make it "easier" in your view?
Many here think "I'm paying for the sound guy. He should do what I tell him to. And that means working with my sound, PERIOD." To an extent, that will wind up being the case. If you refuse to budge on "your sound", that's what's going to be amplified, even if it sucks. We can't polish a turd.
It gets murky when there's a house sound guy, or you're the 15th band out of 27 playing that day at a pay-to-play festival. That production guy is running the show. Period. Not much you can do about that. His way or the highway.
(@Paulabass I realize you're a true professional sound person. I didn't mean to ignore the ladies with the term "sound guy" or "he/him/his". It was just shorter than typing out all of the possible gender pronouns that many times. Your expertise is noted and accepted.)
There's a history here. Yours isn't the only thread about this kind of thing. There are dozens, if not a hundred. So there's context you may not be aware of.
Personally, I have a wireless and during the sound check I like to walk around the room to see how the balance comes across at the dance floor, the start and back of the tables, and on the sides. Then I make adjustments or suggest adjustments as needed. Usually the adjustments are just volume balance. My sound is pretty straightforward though. I'm not using any effects and run a very flat EQ with just a little boost at either 250Hz (using my amp) or 500Hz (using my WTDI). So my signal chain is pretty easy to deal with.
I prefer the sound of my cab mic'd and at the music festivals where I've performed they always seem to do that. Occasionally one will mic it and take a DI feed too. When I see a sound team do that, I usually smile because it almost always sounds great.
