Awww... come on, are you LOOKING for an argument? Trolling? Can't we be adults here and state opinions without being jumped on and referred to as stupid? I have said here a few times that most of our audiences don't react to some of the subtle nuances of our craft and changes in our gear - BUT I NEVER called them STUPID! I never would. Those are YOUR words. Please refrain.
Of 3000 people at your gig you got 20 to 30 who came up and mentioned to you about the difference in your sound. That is under 1% of your audience. 99% came to hear some good music which you provided with or without a different bass with new strings. Sure, probably some more of them heard a difference but didn't come up to you and tell you about it - they were just there to have a good time and listen to good music. THAT is what MOST cared about.
Most audiences listening to an orchestra don't want to know what kind of strings the violinist uses or whether they are new or old or what kind of hair the bow is made of. WE are the musicians and WE care about those kind of things, in part in order to provide our audience with what WE think is the best kind of music we can deliver to them. THAT is the respect we owe an audience that pays money to listen to us. To do our best in the moment.
Part of doing our best is that mental attitude of having and playing an instrument that makes US feel good about playing it. That translates into better music most of the time whether anyone ELSE hears specific real differences in gear or not. Our job in front of an audience is not to impress them with our gear, but show them a good time for their money spent. WE are the NERDS - the people who easily hear(or think we hear) differences and nuances in our sound and chase that perfect sound we hear in our heads. SURE, some hear the differences we make in our gear and some tell you about it. MOST don't. That doesn't make them STUPID - just not musicians like us(a good thing? a bad thing?) Throwing the word STUPID around in a conversation about gear almost never serves any purpose but to rile people up. Please refrain. There are better uses for this website than that. PLEASE.
I have to agree. I'm roughly in my 37th year playing out in front of various size crowds and MIssing Link describes my experiences accurately for the most part.
Crowds I've played for consists of strangers and regulars. Only those who had seen me play a few times would ever come up to comment about my tone, (as was described in this thread) and it was usually a very generic observation. Those that came up to comment about my tone with any detail to their description were musicians, but not always bassists.
I'd say the most astute observers of tone by non-musicians have been club owners that have seen many different bands in their venue. Those folks will tell you what they think without pulling any punches. When they hear something they like, they usually let you know. When they hear something they don't like they always let you know.
Audiences are a little bit the opposite. The few non-musicians I've had comment on tone usually know me / the band. Few are critical, but one thing they seem to have in common is noticing a change from the previous time(s) they saw you. Some are ignorant about which instrument creates which sound & some are more knowledgeable.
I've never thought any audience doesn't notice at all, but I would say most audiences I've played for don't notice individual instruments a tenth as much as they notice the overall band tone / sound.
