Tonight and tomorrow are my last "official" gig with the country band I've been with for the past 8 years.
It went pretty well. Not real busy Friday night, but a decent crowd Saturday, and they were partying hearty. So a nice sendoff.
I had a strange encounter Friday night. Just before the first set, a woman I'd never seen before introduced herself as the ex-wife of the singer in my new band. She proceeded to tell me a bunch of negative stuff about him, including his 2 other exes and 9 children,

and a probable 18-month jail term for nonpayment of support in his near future.


She strongly urged me not to join the band. All this was especially amusing in view of his wedding Saturday afternoon, which I attended, with all this information on my mind.
The new band's drummer was the best man. After the reception, I discussed the encounter with him. He denied 2 of the 3 exes, and 4 of the alleged children, but confirmed the nonpayment of support, and the possible jail time. He dismissed the jail time by saying he's got a couple of replacements lined up already.
My issue is: I shouldn't have had to hear this from a stranger. When were they going to share this with me?
I didn't know these guys before joining. I'm trying not to conclude that they are weasels, until I've heard what they have to say about this. But I'm definitely PO'ed. If I'm being played for a sucker, I'll be gone.
