That's fair. I didn't record it for THEM.
So great, and so true - that's how it should be regarded, IMHO.
I had learned that lesson when I posted a track (in a German forum) seeking for feedback, especially on mixing;
One wrote:
"Congrats for the worst song of the year!"
*lol* Really, I wasn't prepared for such things to happen online, I was 100% a greenhorn...
Since his post wasn't actual critique, I could ignore it. And once I saw he's trying to be a pop music producer, I thought what
@RustyAxe so brilliantly wrote, above
When it comes to music, to me the biggest reassurances that I'm on the right track are:
- I like it myself (= requirement)
- Test listeners move their body, legs, head to the song when listening
- Getting actual critique (means to me: the song is not bad enough to be ignored)
- At least someone's eyes went as wet as mine on a melancholic song
- Playing in front of kids and earning happy smiles from them; happened for the first time this week; unplanned, spontaneously. My guitarist and me were practicing outside, already finished, when suddenly some kids sat down before us *lol* Even though I played horrible, and was way more nervous than playing in front of adults, they even chimed in during the chorus! Made me happy as can
Feedback also works without words.
@Killed_by_Death If you get the chance to play in front of others, take that chance. It also may work asking someone you know well enough to listen to your recording; so you can see the body language; when the body moves to the groove, it says more than thousand words, IMHO - and if not, you know your track is not ready yet, due to whatever reason; mic / DI, EQ, latency, timing, tightness, playing, whatever. The listener might as well have had a bad day. Anyway, if that happens to me, and there's no sign that the listener got into the song, I do feel disappointed, but at least it's honest and unbiased feedback, and that I appreciate, because it's rare and valueable.
Anyway, feel free to cheer up and have fun. "Nobody tells a man how to play" - no one but you yourself \m/