BurningSkies
CRAZY BALDHEAD
- Feb 20, 2005
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- Endorsing artist: Dingwall Guitars
I remember when I started playing live as a youngster, I would get nervous weeks before a show. Now I do get a little nervous now and then, but that's part of paying your dues playing out in bars having someone "air bassing" a half a foot in front of you and that type of stuff!
I find it easier playing for strangers than people you know. But, the best thing for getting over nerves is being prepared and and knowing the material so well that you can just do it on automatic. There's nothing worse than letting the brain get in the way of a good performance!
Back when I was in my first "real band" doing club and festival shows that had 200-500 people I'd get excited days in advance and the day of show most certainly (I worked with the singer in that band at a record store) we'd be totally amped up. Then I came to realize that it was actually often draining me of energy I'd rather have on stage. So now, I don't really get worked up about any of it.
I also, if I can find a quiet place before the show do some eyes-shut lightweight meditation/breathing time and do my best to quiet my mind and focus on being 'in the moment' on stage.
I also am pretty well practiced in the material (some of these songs are the better part of 7-9 years old and have seen hundreds of rehearsals and hundreds of shows plus my own practice at home). My strategy is to hopefully build a muscle memory of the material so that I'm not even thinking about what I'm actually doing or when/where changes are. That opens you up to hopefully be receptive to what's happening on stage and play with that.
Same problem here, Just performed for church and did considerably better vs. last week.
Instead of looking at the chords and thinking where they are on the fretboard, I just listened to the band and played with my hands and not my brain- only lost place once when a song went an additional chorus than practiced.
First time playing the Dingwall for church! she really shines when it comes to held notes and adds lots of fullness to the sound.
I've taken the 'sustain' a bit further. My Cali76CB is set up so that if I hold a note...it's gonna go indefinitely until I mute it...then if I do need to hold something I can 'ride' the string at the bridge (with very subtle pressure) to keep it from getting out of control.
Boy ain't that the truth! I seldom play in front of friends at the house and have a hard time getting started if I do, but when I'm at work on stage, not a problem at all. Actually I have little problem playing for people I know if they've come somewhere to hear me and I think it's really driven by not wanting to force people to pay attention to me at home, but at work it's actually what they're paying me to do. Glad to hear I'm not the only one who has to deal with that side of it.![]()
I do my best to also put myself into situations that might stretch me...Last year I learned 75 minutes of another band's material (also not on my regular bass, but on my 5 string Steinberger), flew to the gig location, had one 3-hour rehearsal with the band; then the next day was on stage under the jumbo-trons at a festival that is about 4K-ish per day in attendance.
...or reworking all our band's material on fretless and doing a one-off two-set 'acoustic' show in front of a sold out show...after not having played fretless for the better part of two decades.
In both cases they came off fine. I put in a LOT of time, which makes me a better player in a bunch of ways. And also builds confidence over-all. I don't do a lot of open sit-ins or that kind of stuff, which I probably should. I've never been an amazing 'improvisational' player...so something to work on.
So yeah, take chances but do your legwork.
Also, if you haven't...and you're a player who's hard on yourself, your live playing and/or your gig-confidence, read this book.
(click pic to get info)I was skeptical about it going in...it's a jazz player who plays piano, so what could he know about bass, right? But I found that the ideas and info really put me in a good mind-space thinking about playing and being on stage.
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