That's for sure. My parents have been gone for a long time, but now we're dealing with my 91 year old mother-in-law. She'd been living on her own (with our unacknowledged help), but now she's slipping into some serious dementia and my wife has been tying herself in emotional knots over moving her into adult foster care. Her mother is resisting it because she has a false sense of independence since we've been been doing all the food preparation, laundry, cleaning, finances, etc., basically enabling her to live in what has become an unsafe situation. We've finally got a spot lined up for her in an AFC home, but it's gonna be a rough transition. My wife has some serious health issues of her own and doesn't need the additional stress, so I've been spending a lot of time "talking her off the ledge" and helping out wherever I can, but it's wearing both of us down. There's finally a light at the end of the tunnel that doesn't look like an oncoming train and I'm hoping we can do some of the things we've wanting to do while she can still see, but have been putting off in order to care for her mother. With all the things that have been hitting us in the past few years, it's sometimes hard to keep my head up, but believe it or not, you guys have helped out in that regard with this thread. So, thanks!