I don’t know if it’s an Italian thing, but my grandma’s purse/handbag has to be big enough to put the restaurant menu and the salt & pepper shakers in it… yes that actually happened.
Her sister-in-law is the same way.
My wife says the same about her Italian family. There was a scene in the Sopranos where a group of older Italian ladies finish lunch and take everything off the table before they leave. My wife started laughing and said she had witnessed that behavior growing up.
